thu 12/12/2024

Prue Leith: Journey with My Daughter, Channel 4 review - an emotional journey into the past | reviews, news & interviews

Prue Leith: Journey with My Daughter, Channel 4 review - an emotional journey into the past

Prue Leith: Journey with My Daughter, Channel 4 review - an emotional journey into the past

'Bake Off' judge travels to Cambodia on a quest for historic roots

Who do you think you are? Prue Leith with daughter Li-Da

Days before the Cambodian capital Phnom Penh fell to the Khmer Rouge in 1975, orphaned baby Li-Da was flown out of the country, and was eventually adopted by Prue Leith and her husband Rayne. Leith’s culinary star was rising rapidly, and her husband was a successful writer and businessman. Their Cotswolds home became a fairytale setting in which their adopted daughter could make a fresh start.

In this fascinating film (for Channel 4) about her trip back to Cambodia with her daughter, Leith admitted that she never felt much curiosity about Li-Da’s family and her Cambodian background, and never worried about the way the child had been torn away from her cultural roots (though she recalled how a passer-by once berated her for doing just that). She also confessed to feeling disgust for a country which had produced the genocidal Khmer Rouge.

However, it’s a different story for Li-Da, for whom questions about her Cambodian origins have long been nagging at her. A producer and director herself, she previously made a film about a return trip to Cambodia called Belonging (2003). Now, having also become an adoptive mother, Li-Da travelled with Leith in a further attempt to find out what happened to her family during the hideous years of the Pol Pot regime.

She’d always believed that her mother had been killed in a rocket attack while her father had been a soldier fighting the against the Khmer Rouge, but their new researches suggested this may not have been true. A man called Chang told a story of how a baby girl had been given to an American to be flown out of the country, and directed them to the child’s birth mother, a woman named Soth. Was that baby really Li-Da? We saw the duo waiting on tenterhooks for the results of a DNA test.

But perhaps the most revealing aspect of this documentary was its depiction of Li-Da’s relationship with Leith. As a Bake Off judge, Leith can seem brittle and brusque, a bit like Joyce Grenfell impersonating Margaret Thatcher. Here, though, we could feel the unbreakable emotional bond between the two women, with Leith even shedding a few tears (“this is ridiculous! I am not a woman who cries!”). Whatever happens, they’ll always have each other to lean on.

Add comment

The future of Arts Journalism

 

You can stop theartsdesk.com closing!

We urgently need financing to survive. Our fundraising drive has thus far raised £33,000 but we need to reach £100,000 or we will be forced to close. Please contribute here: https://gofund.me/c3f6033d

And if you can forward this information to anyone who might assist, we’d be grateful.

Subscribe to theartsdesk.com

Thank you for continuing to read our work on theartsdesk.com. For unlimited access to every article in its entirety, including our archive of more than 15,000 pieces, we're asking for £5 per month or £40 per year. We feel it's a very good deal, and hope you do too.

To take a subscription now simply click here.

And if you're looking for that extra gift for a friend or family member, why not treat them to a theartsdesk.com gift subscription?

newsletter

Get a weekly digest of our critical highlights in your inbox each Thursday!

Simply enter your email address in the box below

View previous newsletters